
Lauren Wanger, the 27 year old teacher from Florida and former Ms. United States, was one of the more outspoken Bachelorettes on this season of The Bachelor. She was eliminated along with Megan and Shannon when Jason Mesnick decided not to hand out 'the final rose' at the rose ceremony on last week's episode of The Bachelor.
Lauren recently answered some of our questions about her experience on the reality show and how she was portrayed, as well as her connection with Jason. Lauren also shared some of her thoughts on the final four ladies---Molly, Naomi, Melissa and Jillian--still vying for Jason's heart and her own plans for the future.
Reality TV Soup: What did you think about Jason not handing out the last rose the night you were eliminated?
Lauren: I was surprised that Jason did not hand out the final rose because he gave me the impression that he wanted me to stay. He was actually the one who asked for the kiss. Even though I was surprised, it wasn’t a total shock. I think it was obvious that Jason and I did not develop a romantic chemistry. At this point I started to doubt my decision to stay in the house and contemplated going home. Other women in the house knew this as well. I was relieved when Jason was upfront and honest because I was very homesick and happy to be returning to my real life.
Reality TV Soup: Did you feel he did the right thing in not leading anyone on or do you think he should have kept 6 in the competition?
Lauren: I feel he definitely did the right thing by not leading anyone on. All these ladies put their lives on hold to be here and if he did not feel a connection, then the right thing to do would be to let them know so they can get back to their normal routine, such as work, family, and friends. Likewise, if I was certain there was no connection, and was offered a rose, I would not have accepted it. It works both ways.
Reality TV Soup: Do you feel you had a genuine connection with Jason?
Lauren: I think Jason was a really great person, but unfortunately, I did not spend enough time with him to gain a genuine connection.
Reality TV Soup: What made you decide to go on The Bachelor?
Lauren: Prior to The Bachelor, I was in a three year relationship that I thought would end in a walk down the aisle. Unexpectedly, my boyfriend decided he no longer wanted to be in a committed relationship and he broke it off. Later I found out that he had been unfaithful. Needless to say, I was completely heart broken. Then I had heard that they were casting bachelorettes for the new season of The Bachelor, and I decided to apply. I had been a fan of the show for quite sometime and I thought it would be a good opportunity and perhaps a new chance at love.
Reality TV Soup: Was the fact that Jason was the Bachelor a factor as it was for some of the other women on the show? Or was it more for the adventure?
Lauren: I signed up for the show before I knew it was Jason. I figured I had nothing to lose. At least it would be an adventure and there was the chance of meeting an awesome guy.
Reality TV Soup: Ok, you were very direct with Jason on the show about what you wanted and didn't want....do you think Jason had trouble with someone being so direct with him? Or do you think he liked it?
Lauren: At first I thought he didn’t mind my being so direct. He was the one who asked me what I thought about the other ladies. And, he asked me if I thought Megan was there for the right reasons. After watching the show, I realized he did value my opinion, but often thought I was giving him a hard time, which he didn’t like. When I was there, he told me that he had a really unique relationship with me and a connection with me like no one else in the house. At the time, I assumed this was a positive thing, but after watching, he didn’t seem to like how demanding I was. At least I know, as he watches the show, he will see that I was being honest. Also, he was right about my wanting to be “spoiled” by the person I am with. I do enjoy the attention and affection from my partner, and in return, I spoil the person I am with as well. I think that is the way it should be.
Reality TV Soup: Are you seeing anyone now? We received a tip you were seeing Nach Hernandez ---any truth to that?
Lauren: Lol! I cannot confirm that tip right now. I am very happy with my life after the show and I am sure I will get everything I dreamed of….marriage, kids…the whole thing! Nach and I were really good friends before the show and sometimes being apart from someone, you realize you have stronger feelings for them.
Reality TV Soup: Do you have any regrets about doing the show? Or do you have anything you'd like to do over or different? How do you feel about your edit? Was it on target? Fair? Was there anything viewers didn't see about you that you wish they had?
Lauren: I don’t have any regrets about doing the show. I really had the chance to meet some wonderful people. All the ladies there were awesome. They were all educated, successful, and accomplished women and I know we will remain friends. However, I do not think I was portrayed accurately or fair. Being that the show airs an entire week in only 2 hours, it is impossible to show everything. And while I obviously said the things that were aired because they came out of my mouth, I think only one side was shown and it wasn’t my best side. A lot of the time I said things in jest and it came off looking sometimes arrogant or mean. I would want viewers to know that I am an open and sometimes downright blunt person, but I have a good heart and would never intentionally hurt anyone. My friends and family know who I really am, and I know they would never “judge” me for the way I was on the show. The ladies in the house also knew me and likewise, I know they are not judging me either.
Reality TV Soup: Did the women 'really' all get along as it appears they do for the most part on the televised episodes? Was there alot of cattiness or did everyone truly support the other as it seemed?
Lauren: The ladies in the house all really did get along. This season more than ever, the show selected ladies that were more mature than previous seasons. I think this has a lot to do with the fact that Jason was the bachelor and he has a small child. All the ladies in the house had great qualities and would be great around Ty. The show couldn’t risk having women there that could negatively influence Ty should they have the chance to meet him. As far as cattiness or drama….it can happen. Even if you were with your best friend, if you live with someone for 24 hours 7 days a week with no distractions, you are bound to butt heads sooner or later. We all worked it out in the end and I have nothing but good feelings towards everyone in the house.
Reality TV Soup: Will you stay in touch with any of the women from the show? Anyone you absolutely would not stay in touch with?
Lauren: After the show is through, I will most definitely keep in touch with all the ladies in the house. We share a very special bond and I think we will always stay in contact with one another.
Reality TV Soup: Melissa is the one who's strongly rumored to win Jason's heart in the end........did you see a connection with the two of them from the very beginning? It seemed alot of people voted for her to be the one to leave that first night, but it wasn't clear as to 'why'.......other than a few have said she was competition.
Lauren: Melissa is a sweetheart and she really is that nice in real life as she is portrayed on the show. I wasn’t really sure if there was a connection when I was there, but now watching them on TV, I see a huge connection. I have no idea if she will win Jason’s heart in the end, but it certainly looks like she may.
Reality TV Soup: Who do 'you' think will ultimately win Jason's heart or 'seemed' best for Jason? And do you think it will last?
Lauren: I am not sure who will win Jason’s heart. I could see him with Melissa, Molly or Jillian. Jillian lives really close to Seattle and is the oldest of the 3 (I think 29), so I think the transition for her would be the easiest. She has a wonderful personality as well. Molly is young (24), but I think she is ready for marriage and children. Her sister was married at a young age and just had a baby, so I think she could follow suit. However, she loves her job and I am not sure if she would be able to move locations and keep her current job, which may pose a problem. I think Jason is really attracted to her. Melissa is so cute and sweet. It is clear Jason really likes her. I could see her having a relationship with Jason too. I mean, it’s really a shot in the dark. I do believe you can fall in love in 6 weeks.
Reality TV Soup: What are you plans for the future? Focusing on your singing? More pageants? Anything in the works?
Lauren: I signed up for the bachelor because I wanted to fall in love, get married and start a family. I’ve always wanted this. As far as my future plans, I am focusing on my family, friends, and love life. I would love to continue writing songs and record more as well, but I would really like someone else to sing my songs (I don’t have a great singing voice). As far as pageants go, I think I am too old to compete, but I would love to stay involved in pageants as a host, judge, and trainer.
Reality TV Soup: One last question....was there anyone there you are surprised he kept this far? If so, why?
Lauren: I am not surprised about the remaining ladies on the show. I am not sure if I see the chemistry with Naomi yet, but it is clear they have developed a friendship. I can clearly see the connection with Molly, Melissa, and Jillian.
Here are a few other facts Lauren shared with Reality TV Soup---(she talked about them on the show, but these conversations didn’t air)
"I wrote the song “Famous” for a movie soundtrack called “The Legend of Tillamook’s Gold”. I did not want to sing this on the show! (editor's note: this is the song they showed Lauren singing with the girls at the end of the 'write a song for Jason' episode as the credits rolled)
By the way, I really did write the song on the show for Jason in 30 minutes.
I was Ms. United States 2007 and I am currently a 7th grade Social Studies teacher now and have been for 4 years.
I started pageants when I was 22 years old, not as a child.
I did talk about politics and religion with Jason. Jason and I are the same religion and have the same views on raising children with regard to religion. "
Much thanks to Lauren for taking the time to answer our questions! The Bachelor airs Mondays on ABC.










